that relationship poster is classic…lol

Quick notes on each of the items:

#1 – I never do the off/on again. I'm a DJ, and I HATE broken records. I also NEVER play the same record twice in one night. Take that as a microcosm of life… there are some things that should just never be revisited. Relationships included, IMO. Period.

#2 – You only LOOK BACK to understand what you must do to improve your experience AHEAD. History is important, and yes, you may still full love the person, but you broke up for a reason. More than likely, the situation/reason for the breakup will STILL exist. And if it doesn't, time changes. You know how a wound heals, but the skin doesn't always look the same even when the mark is almost completely gone? Its still there… you're marked for life. And so is that former relationship.

#3 – When it comes to DMGs, I'm ruthless. You cheat on me? Peace… when you see me, don't even part your damn mouth. THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR DMGs. Mistakes that do happen that are forgivable are not full DMGs, they are just "DMs" – defining moments. A test, if you will. Straight up, stepping out on your committed partner = DMG. There's no return from that. That means something was missing in your eyes/mind/heart that made you get it elsewhere. If you really feel that way, just break up and remain friends. You can't have your cake and eat it too… too many calories leads to health issues… LOL. And don't get me started on the alleged "CB" thing. Striking a woman is some BULL. There is NO. FORGIVING. THAT. Unless she comes at you with a knife, gun, etc and there was no other way to defend yourself, its jut not gentlemanly. Period. That is some B*TCH SH*T. werd.

#4 – Can love keep the person in your life? Yes. Does that mean you gotta put yourself back through the wringer of pain? No, unless you're clinically STUPID. I been there… but I couldn't do it.

Straight up… being completely candid and talking way too much about myself, I was walking with my ex by the waterfront on the Westside Highway, we were talking. and she came out and said do you still love me? Yeah, I did. She said "then hold me". And with all the pain in anger in my damn voice, I had to tell her like yo… you not mine to hold no more. Go back to dude you cheated on me with. I. Can't Ignore. The Bullsh*t you pulled. And for that I will never fully trust you, so I can't even play the smallest of roles of even being like we're kinda together.

I made the good move… she ended up marrying dude she cheated on me with. LMAO.

And every ex, no matter how cool we stayed or became after the fact, has ever been given a round 2. Its one and done with the kid. Fool me once… eff you. Pack your sh*t and be out till I tell you can come around me again. LOL.

Peace Bruh!

When I speak of history, I speak of the excuse that people use when a relationship is no longer functioning. I dont speak of those relationships that work. Im talking the on again off again, people cheated on each other, you want to leave but ur scared because you dont think you can do better kind of relationships. If you are getting treated like sh*t in a relationship, yet you have been witht hat person for years, you're suppose to stay in it because of history? To me that's a lack of common sense and self esteem.

The grass definitely isn't greener than any side, but sometimes, when the writings on the wall you have to READ it instead of ignoring it. OF COURSE relaionships are to build for better or worse, taking a persons shortcomings and loving them DESPITE that. This has a lot to do with knowledge of SELF! If you KNOW yourself and KNOW that you can't look past a persons flaws or truly accept them, you do the other person a disservice by remaining in that relationship! If things get to the point of no return, or compromise isnt being established, are u suppose to stay because of history? Are you suppose to say "eff it I love he/she, so Ima ride it out…..some more?

This is in those situations where people try to compromise, have excessive back and forth, and you KNOW its time to leave. Shout out to the people who maintain good relationships, but if you arent satisfied in your relationship,m you go thru the motions, you make excuses for unacceptable behaviour, or you fear the unknown, then SETTLING with SET you up for more moments of anguish!

No one is perfect, but no one deserves to compromise their happiness for history.